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writes:Hello guys,I have kind of a gerenal question. How do you know when someone is right for you/ the right love?I know you have to work for love but how hard. Are you suppose to work really hard or is that just a hint it's not the right love? And when do you know when to call quits? Reply to this Question
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (16 October 2009):
 You know it's right when you enjoy each other's company, when you have enough in common to share your interests with each other, but enough differences to each be an individual (not a clone of one another); you know how to fight to resolve issues, not to just beat each other up verbally and feel emotionally damaged, when you look forward to seeing that person at the end of the day and the relationship empowers you, builds you up and helps you conquer the other problems we all face in life. That's when you know it's right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2009): Let me just say that good things don't come easily. You have to work hard for something good.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 October 2009):
You love them for who they are, what they do and you have a huge amount of respect for them. You'd do anything for them, you understand them. That sort of thing. The best thing to do if you're not sure is to go and sit somewhere quiet and really listen to what your heart is telling you.
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