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writes:hi , i am 14 years old . and i have first got fingured last year , but recently i met this new boy , and he isnt dooing anything wrong . but it hurts . I cant even use Tampons , ii cry just trying . when ever my bf tries too figure me i make him stop because it hurts alot . and i almost cry . this isnt normal at all , and i know . i just dnt know what too doo , ii wanna talk too my mom but i just cant . she will have way too many questions and it kinda awkward . i am just scared , and i dnt know what that means . like it didnt hurt befroe but now it kills . will you please help me .
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2009): you may have an infection or damage. you need to talk to your mom and just tell her you burn down there and think you need a doctor. girls get infections and burnings due to a lot of different reasons, and she shd understand that. tell her you read about it on the internet and you think you have an infection due to heat rash or something. please find a way to talk to a doctor. or go to a school counselor or a teacher you trust. and don't let guys finger you. please stop allowing guys to do that to you. it's just not something you need to let happen. trust me on that. best of wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2009): If your too nervous to talk to your mother then try another adult. A doctor, id go straight away as that isnt suppost to hurt and it could be an infection.trust me that isnt an area of your body that you want to have problems with so get it checked asap, also in the meantime advise your bf that hes only getting conversation until your ok.
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (16 October 2009):
 Maybe he has long nails. check his finger nails. Or maybe just being too rough.
You need to advise what is comfortable for you.
Don;t make boys take advantage of you. You are still very young. Try and keep your reputation in tact as boys can be cruel.
Take care.
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reader, smallerthanu94 +, writes (16 October 2009):
You really need to talk to someone, this could be a big problem. You could have an infection or something much worse. I know it's going to be hard to talk to an adult and your mom is the best choice, but you need to think about your health and you don't want to take any chances. I just recently found out I'm pregnant and I'm 15.. I only live with my father and I have all brothers. Imagine how hard it is going to be for me to tell all of them? I still haven't yet but I am going to soon. Just talk to your mom, I'm sure she loves you and will try her best to understand.
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