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female
age
30-35,
*uliaash123
writes:ok well here goes AGAIN...the same guy i was asking you guys to help me out with his whole commit issue well.. about a month ago i ended it with him thinking it was the best for the both of us..about a week and a half later we got back we couldn't stand being away from each other.. after a week of talking i found out that a girl had asked him to homecoming and that they were going together (he informed me)... i was upset about it but i accepted it..the night of homecoming i had a date and he was going with that girl to homecoming.. i didnt want my world to revolve around him and i thought i could give this guy a chance... turns out the guy stood me up because of the guy i was talking to.. he had told that guy some stuff and made the guy think something of me.. which wasnt true...SO i got all dressed up in a pretty black dress did my makeup, hair, nails and everything and im just sitting there in my car in the parking lot of the movie theatre balling my eyes out for about 4 hours.. not wanting to go home...me and that guy were suppose to meet up after the dance...he calls me at 11 oclock in the middle of the dance and says, " we have to be friends.." i said why and he said,"because of the girl i took to the dance." he wouldnt explain anything else to me..i was just crying hysterically yelling and everything this is the guy i gave my body, heart, mind, time, money and love to for the last 9 months... WAT DID HE GIVE ME??turns out he asked her out right after and he wouldnt ask me out or commit to me for 9 months.. she said no she had gotten out of a bad relationship etc..a bunch of other drama happened and its too much to explain.. long story short that same night he said how sorry he was saying he fucked up and made a huge mistake..he kissed up to me for the next two days or so.. i got to school that monday morning and people are coming up to me saying why is your man all over that girl...when i heard that i knew what was going on so after school i went to confront him and when i said we need to talk he rolled his eyes and sighed... oh yes that pissed me off. i ended it right there i said ITS DONE. and i wasn't finished and he walked away from me and brushed me off even when i had my hand on his shoulder...since then we haven't talked but he keeps telling everyone how much he regrets doing that to me and how much he fucked up... all his friends as well as mine defend me and tell him that he should try and talk to me again.. i see him everyday at school and i always catch him looking at me... i really love him but i don't know what to do here.. i think he thinks this is hopeless so hes not even trying to get back with me...what do i do? how do i let him know i still care but what he did was really wrong and hurtful? i miss talking to him.. and everyday that goes by i think about him more.. many guys are trying to talk to me but i'm just not interested... PLEASE HELP!
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (17 October 2009):
 Forget him. He had his chance with you and he messed it up. Then he got a second chance and messed that up too. There are guys out there who will treat you better and who you will have that same connection with, so go out there and watch them find you by the dozen! Life is too short to wait around for someone to change.
Good luck.
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