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30-35,
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writes:Hi all! I am new to this but not a registered user. Let me get straight to the point. There is an older guy I have a deep, passionate crush on and I cannot tell if he likes me back. I have been chasing him since earlier this Summer and never could build up the courage to talk to him. One day, while my brother played with his two kids, they ended up getting to know me and now we are all good friends and I just recently (FINALLY) got to meet my crush. He acted extremely nice not only because he's a male nurse but also because, I'm a woman. He is divorced and in his mid 30's. He has been having problems with his feet lately and has been trying to stay off them but if I don't see him for a few days (like the day one of his kids and I entered the house) he said, 'oh good just the two I wanted to see.' he has said things similar a couple of times after as well but now every time I see him, he'll just look at me. It's almost hard to explain but at first I had the wrong impression that he liked me back and now I am getting the feeling he doesn't really care. I would also like to get to know him more but I don't want to bother him since he'll mostly be lying in his bedroom staying off his feet unless other visitors - I am apparently over so much that he prefers to stay off his feet but I am really great with his kids and they really like me a lot plus his eldest son mentioned his dad (my crush) had a girlfriend but he has never directly spoken to me about a girlfriend, only his ex-wife. Any help would be greatly appreciated. I haven't been in many relationships so I am pretty much clueless on how he feels.. :(
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reader, YourDestiny11 +, writes (16 October 2009):
 At his age hes tired and done with the whole high school games! You need to be straight up with him and tell him how you feel and see what kind of response he gives and then make your move from that point! Good luck!
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