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writes:Okay so if you have read my past questions you will know the whole story..but to get to the point.We broke up and now he says he wants to "date" again and take it slow. Says he wants to start from the beginning. Well...how do you do that when you were together for 2 years and lived together?Its frusterating because everytime I ask him if he wants to hang out he says no..or that he has plans..or if he has time he will. He NEVER responds to my texts nor calls me. I feel like I am the only one fighting for this to work. He says how much he loves me and misses me, and how I am the one he is going to marry.He said maybe Sunday we can watch the game but like seriously.....how romantic right? How am I supposed to exspect any attention doing that? He is a football nut...I dont exist when the game is on. I feel like he is not being fair and only wants to hang out when its conveinent for him. Im really feeling like a pushover but I love him terribly!! What do I do...? Should I give up? I dont get it...how is this dating?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 October 2009):
I don't think it would make a difference. If he really loved you, he'd be doing it all now, wouldn't he. Seriously, don't wait for him. There are other, better more reliable guys out there. Leopards rarely change their spots. You could try not talking to him or texting him to see what happens, but i think you'll find it won't make a difference.
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reader, dani91621 +, writes (16 October 2009):
dani91621 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I will try lol...should I just play his game? If he really loves me he will come back right? Should I just not ask him to hang out..call him...text him..tell him I live him? Should I just wait for him and when he does wanna hang out tell him Im busy and cant?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 October 2009):
I have to say, he really doesn't seem all that interested. I think you'd be better off moving on and finding yourself a guy who does want you! :)
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reader, dani91621 +, writes (16 October 2009):
dani91621 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes your right...I feel like I am not the most important thing to him but he swears up and down I am. Its just so hard to let go of hope. You would think that if this was important to him he would wanna fight to make it work and that he would be excited to wanna see me. this was a text he just sent me...
ME: Hey if ya have time later it be cool to hang out for a bit.
HIM: If I got time Ill call ya tonight. if not maybe Sunday we can chill.
HIM:If not Sunday then maybe next week sometime.
ME:If you have time? lol...cool
ME:I dont care if we hang out or not but if this is what you consider dating and making it work then Im cool. U only do anything when its conveinient for u. Not what Im looking for Jess.Im done being the only one who fights for this. Have a good weekend.
SERIOUSLY!!! How can he say he wants this to work and he is so non-chalant??
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 October 2009):
Red what you're writing! He preferes football. He split with you after living with you and now wants to take things slowly. He doesn't want to hang out, and he doens't reply to texts and calls. Do you want to be second best, or the most important person in a man's life? Let this guy go, and find yourself a good man who will love you and not use you.
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