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*ay124
writes:Hello. my girlfriend and i are at different colleges and she is coming to visit me soon. after dating over a year, we are planning on having sex for the first time. i have 4 durex condoms, i already tried one to explore how to use it ect. My question is; we have been sexually active for around a year (no vaginal intercourse) and i am wondering if she will still bleed when we first have sex. i have fingered her very many times and she has not felt pain or bled. also, she is a horse rider if that may explain anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009): It is possible fore her to bleed the first time you have sex. I'm taking it that she is a virgin. If that is true, she will more than likely bleed.but do not freak out if she does. It is normal.
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reader, Candleman +, writes (16 October 2009):
Unless she it is around or during her period (which obviously she will be bleeding or blood will be present), the only blood that could possibly show is if the act causes her hymen to seperate.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hymen
It doesn't have to be sex that seperates a woman's hymen. It can be physical activity like riding a horse that could have already seperated the hymen, therefore no bleeding.
Since this is your first time. Remember to go slow as it is usually painful for her. You should always start out slow in order to give the woman a chance to become fully aroused. That is why foreplay is good as well.
I highly recommend going to this site and learning more about the female. It is good info.
www.the-clitoris.com
Enjoy
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reader, jay124 +, writes (16 October 2009):
jay124 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks, im not sure we can get any other form of contraceptive though, getting condoms was tough enough haha.
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