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writes:I hung out with my roommates brother and connected with him incredibly. We both commented that it was creepy how alike we were. He lives 3 hours away and told me when we parted that he needed to get my number so we could go on a date. He was genuine when he said it but it's been three weeks and he hasn't asked me out yet. He is very busy with the airforce but how long should I wait before I move on?
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reader, nicole90 +, writes (16 October 2009):
nicole90 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you both for your replies. I agree that I should wait for him to initiate contact but I hate not knowing what he is thinking. It's too soon to come out and ask him but it's killing me. My brother lives forty five minutes away from the guy and wants me to come down and visit him. I was thinking of going to visit my brother then casually letting this guy know I am down there. I am kind of busy so it's hard to find a weekend. I will keep updating what's happening.
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reader, Serenity1 +, writes (16 October 2009):
 you and i share the same situation...only mine is in the same town but works crazy hour...yours is in military or on his way to military...
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you two connected well and like each other...i say if he likes you the same way you like him he'll contact you sooner or later...this is what i say about my situation...we connected good buy it's been almost a week since i spoke with him...so im not going to initiate contact anymore...if he cares he'll contact me...
to answer your question im not going to say move on but keep him in a special place in your heart...but also leave the rest of your heart open to someone else...
hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2009): Busy with the airforce and he lives three hours from you?
Don't you realize that that means a total of six hours travel for him? Even if he comes for a weekend - and NO, I'm NOT recommending that you hop into bed with him if he were to visit for a weekend. In the first place, its almost never a good idea to get sexual before you've known one another for at least a month of dating pretty frequently. The first meeting may well have been, as you said, "incredible" but you can't possibly know what he's really like - or he you - beyond that.
Besides, long-distance relationships are never easy.
So, I'd say, be happy that you had such a wonderful time, but don't expect any more. You MIGHT send an email to say hi, how are you, sort of thing, and see if he responds, but that's all. It's up to him to call you if he does want to see you again, after all - he may have had more thoughts concerning the distance and how busy he is, even though he too enjoyed your time together.....
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