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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I recently made out with my boss in her office, and I feel really bad about it. It came out of nowhere but now I can't stop thinking about her. She's really nice and laid back so I'm lucky because I could've gotten fired if she was somebody different but now I think she wants to try it again. I'm so confused because if my boyfriend found out, he'd be so mad. He's really possessive. She's engaged, too, which just makes it worse and I know for a fact her fiance would flip.As if it wasn't bad enough, now I'm questioning my sexuality. Am I gay? I got more turned on by that than making out with my boyfriend and now I don't know what to think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2009): Good lawd girl, are you completely out of your mind?! Where is your sense of what is appropriate (and not only in this situation) and what is a very bad idea?
Whose idea was it to make out with your boss? She could make your work life hell if you don't have another tryst with her; she could fire you - come to think of it, getting fired, (unless you come to a fast decision to quit)would be the best thing that could happen. I'd recommend quitting - but be prepared for the fact that she might not give you a reference.
It sounds as if what turned you on was doing something you know to be "forbidden fruit" and that added an extra thrill to it, guilty pleasure sort of thing. Possibly also you could (for all we know) be having issues with your boyfriend (extremely jealous and possessive are not good trends for a healthy relationship. She is engaged to be married. Sheesh. What kind of a wife would her fiance be getting?
No, you'd best quit and leave this horrible mess behind you.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2009): Of course you did, it was bizare and exciting. It was also a really bad move. Get on with the job while you still have one and question your sexuality elsewhere...
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