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writes:My friend and I have had this ongoing joke that we are lesbians (a joke that she started and eagerly keeps going.) I thought this would have died down ages ago, but it has been going on for countless weeks already---I think over a month. Basically, I feel as if this joke has reached the point of becoming incredibly serious, especially on her part because she always initiates it. I won't go into the dirty details but things I do with her I don't do with my other friends. In short, I feel like this joke may be a facade for her true attraction/feelings for me? What do I do? I want to know for sure what's going on!
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reader, dididoo +, writes (22 October 2009):
if you're not comfortable with it, then tell her you're not into it anymore and ask her if maybe she's serious about it. just so that if she is, you'll clear the air, before her feelings get hurt and she starts thinking you're going along with it because you like her as well.
if she's just joking about it, she'll probably think it was really funny that you took her seriously.
and if you are comfortable with it... then go for it! lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009): I had a similar situation with one of my friends when I was in my early college years. It was more or less a joke we played with guys. It could be that she has some attraction to you. With my friend it turned out she was bisexual. I was staight forward with her. I told her I was not in to that and she accepted it for what it was. Next time she starts playing this "game" if you don't like it don't go along with it or tell her kindly that it's getting old. I would not ask her if she is attracted to you, because if your wrong it could really hurt her feelings and be an embarassing situation for you. I would wait for her to act more directly on it and then say something. Good luck
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