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writes:over the summer i went to a party with a bunch of friends i grew up with i was the only girl.. we went to this party like early june and i got drunk badly! ive always been called a good girl cause i am a virgin at the party i got drunk and danced thats it! the one guy that i do like i found out he was tryin to get me drunk but even though i got drunk nothin happened between me and him they took me home they attended many other parties during the summer which i did not go to.. but i jus feel badd i dont know why i allowed myself to get so drunk knowing i was the only girl me and the guys are still friends im just mad at myself even though it happened awhile ago what do i do to at least feel a little bit better? and do u think they dont respect me as much?maybe im over thinkin the situation idk please help!
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reader, j223 +, writes (21 October 2009):
I don't think they don't respect you they prob just think it was you first time drinking and you don't know your limit. Getting drunk does not make you a bad girl now I wouldn't worry about hope that helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2009): Um... im not a utter rebel, but I do this every weekend...
I wouldnt worry about it, its not like you did anything stupid. Infact you did it at a party, so its a more safe enviroment that like in the streets or something..
Anyway I bet everyone else was drunk, and they dont remember. If youve never drank before it was bound to hit you harder than the rest of them, you gotta built yourself up :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2009): did you want something to happen?
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (16 October 2009):
I wouldn't worry about it so much, I've got really drunk at a party and got sick and broke a toilet seat, and I was embarrassed about it for awhile. I got chewed out by a friend, and I paid for the damage I caused. I don't think your behavior is that bad, sometimes it isn't safe to be the only girl at a party with a bunch of guys, bad things can happen. Just learn from your mistake, I try not to go out and get drunk anymore, I just have a couple of beers,or if I want to drink more I stay with a friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits not the fact that i got drunk..well to be honest idk whats botherin me i felt bad about being the only girl but nuthin happened! i dont know if im mixin up peoples expectations for me or the expectations for myself.. i know it has happened a long time ago and it was only one party but idk
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reader, Violette09 +, writes (16 October 2009):
I have the same rep of being the goody two shoes. When you step out of charater it throws people off! It sucks at times. You went out one time and had a little too much to drink. If this is your first experience with alcohol then its a good one because now you know the bad influence alcohol can have if you don't know your limits. Next time you go out be mindful of how much you drink. (Assuming your over 21) I had a similar experience and I am in my late twenties. I went to a bar (I very rarely ever drink) and was drinking at the same pace as friends who go weekly. It hit me hard and I ended up passed out in the corner for a while! (Now thats embarrassing) Point is, I decided to give it another shot. The following week I went back to the same bar paced myself and had a really good time. So don't stress over the fact that you made a mistake. Learn from it and move on. Sorry it took so long to get to the point but hope it helps :)
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