Is she being influenced to say this?

A male age 36-40, *uperfly72 writes:

I have a question abou my ex. We recently broke up from our long distance relationship for good. (broken up several times) Mainly do to my deploying. I finally lost it in an arguement when i was called selfish,(which I honestly have never been to her...always making room for what she wanted...even when she wanted other men whilst me being gone) So... flying off the handle for the first time in our relationship, i actually was really mean to her. It was as if i wanted to transfer all the pain and agony that she had caused me right back onto her. Unfortunately I think it worked. But I of course felt horrible after. So recently i have been trying to apologise and she seems to be doing everything in her power to try and make me snap again. I love her dearly even after all the pain and suffering she has caused me... i still remember how much love we shared. I dont want to lose her forever but now while trying to make amends she is just saying very mean and untrue things to me. Things like i have always been so critical of her...ruining her self confidence....what the hell? All i have ever done is tell her how beatiful and amazing she was. Even after she told me all my flaws, I have never made her feel as though she had even one. Why is she saying these things to me when we both know its untrue. Why is she resisting just being my friend? I'm so confused and sad. I just dont wanna be friends... Even if all I ever can be is a friend. Not a day go's by that i dont think of her, or a week that i dont cry at least once. I just want my baby back in my life...even if only as a friend.

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