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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: I am dating my ex that I divorced 10 yrs ago that I was only married to for 2wks .He is nice but for me there is no chemistry, I don't want to be intimate with him. I sometimes feel I am dating him him cause I am not dating anyone else. I guess I like him as a friend and that is it. It cause problems cause he wants to be intimate and gets real frustrated with me. but when I try to call it off with him he gets nuts and very depressed, cries and then stalks me. I don't know what to do, how can I meet Mr. with him around, and its not fair to him either.
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (6 July 2009):
I know you don't want to hurt him, but you need to tell him the truth about how you feel.
I think that you need to spend some time apart from him and sort out your feelings.
You can date him without getting serious or rushing into a commitment. If you enjoy spending time with him as friends, there's nothing wrong with that. Just be sincere so he doesn't feel led on.
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