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*owderedheart
writes:I've been here a while now! I just have so much emotion! I am so very grateful for this site and all the agony aunts.I love my ex boyfriend very much, even though we havent seen each other in a year, but still keep in contact. However last contact ended in a fight and I haven't heard from him since. Even though I've been very hurt by him, I still love him and want to love him. He hasn't had the best life growing up, he doesn't speak to his mother and doesn't know his father. he doesn't have much family and I dont think he had much love growing up, only from friends, everything he has, he made for himself, he is very independent. Yet he was very caring and sweet when we were together. It was only when we started fighting did I see a completely different, cold person in him. And he has said, that he can just cut people off. Yet we have still been speaking after a year apart, to me it means something. Part of me always wants him to know that I will always love him, so even when I am getting no response from him at all, I want him to know that. Part of me thinks I'm completely stupid for doing that, to love someone who is showing no signs of caring about me. I don't know what's going on in his life right now, I know ideally we both want to just move on, but I miss him a lot, he was my first love. Is it weak to let him know i love him when he is not showing me anything? or is it just, love?
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reader, powderedheart +, writes (9 July 2009):
powderedheart is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok i hope so!!!! he's so special to me. I just hope he fels the same way.
thanks so much for responding.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): no dont give up on him, give it time.. love takes time.. I think you to can work it out you just have to communicate.
goodluck!
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reader, kayli  +, writes (7 July 2009):
 hey !
to be honest with u i think u should either bite the bullet and tell him exactly what u feel and see what his reaction is or just forget about him completely...
Then again he hasnt made contact so why should u make the effort? Yes he may have had a unloving childhood but at the end of the day thats not your responsibilty ...ofcourse ul still have feelings for him after all he was your first love but he doesnt have to be your last! open your heart up and let someone else in! It's hard yes but the only way.
Dont know if that will help you
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