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writes:Could use some advice. My girlfriend broke up with me. Over a huge misubderstanding, she has not given me a chance to explain. We agreed to meet and talk last Friday. I contacted her in the morning and she took the entire day to get back to me to say sorry she is busy, by text. I texeted her back and ask when would be good for you? I have not heard from her since. I hate being lied to which is what she did. When angreeing to meet and talk then blow me off. Normaly I would move on after that, and not give it a secound thought. But I feel she could be the one. Do I try one more time to talk? or accept it is over and move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): Don't try to talk to her again. I wont say to "move on" but you have to give her space, as she is not willing to talk to you at the moment. I'm sure the breakup has you distorted but you need some time to clear your head a bit and have some self reflection.
In any case, do not chase or harass her. Just give her space and do what Mutch says, give it some time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): In my opinion, I think she is not ready to see you yet. Give her another 2 weeks and ask to meet her again. But within these 2 weeks, do not contact her at all. Control yourself the impulse of calling/texting/emailing/anything!! To cut off contact with her will give her some time to think alone and during this time too it will give her the space she needs and the experience of being WITHOUT you.
Then after this time, call her again and be friendly, suggest to meet for coffee or lunch. Anything she says, just respect it.
If she still loves you, she will respond positively to it. If not, she may need more time until about 2 months but if all your efforts aren't paying off, then maybe it's time for you to accept it and let her go.
Goodluck to you.
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reader, citic101  +, writes (6 July 2009):
 Move on she is playing you for a fool ! I am sure she is moving on with "whomever" !
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