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writes:Ok, so here goes..I'm with this guy, love him to bits, seriously love him, never felt like this before. It drives me crazy!BUT...I have a slight thing. I don't know what to do or make of it. You see i do love my boyfriend very much, but i find myself thinkin about and lookin at other girls in very sexual ways. I think about being with another girl, but not in a relationship, just in the bedroom department. Not that my boyfriend doesn't satisfy me, because my god do i love him in the bedroom. But its like when we're walkin down a street and a gorgeous girl walks past i start to think about being with them sexually or when watching a movie and a sex scene comes on, all i can do is stare at the woman.Please help, i don't know what to do!Thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): maybe your bi
either way its ok to look at other girls my bf does it its no big deakl it just means you think that girl is hot and you wonder what it would be like to have sex w/ her
as long as you know you love your boyfriend and dont act on the feelings things should be fine
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): So? I fantasize about other women all the time too. I tell my boyfriend about my fantasies as a type of foreplay and he thinks it's ridiculously hot. I am perfectly satisfied--beyond satisfied--with my boyfriend in bed and love him to bits as well. I don't view my being attracted to some women as any kind of threat to the relationship, so long as it doesn't go anywhere of course.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): I think this is more common than you would think, and there's nothing wrong with it! If you're satisfied emotionally and sexually with your boyfriend then just stay as you are. However if you're curious what it would be like to be with a girl, then discuss it with your boyfriend (cheating is always a bad move). There's nothing wrong with exploring your own sexuality though! :-) good luck, xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): Maybe ur Bi-Sexual or Bi-curious talk to your boyfriend see what he thinks maybe you can try a threesome?? Don't do anything that ur not comfertable with
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reader, Pandora Sorrows +, writes (6 July 2009):
 There is nothing wrong with that. Girls do fantised over other girls, its a normal thing. You can tell your boyfriend, if you feel you can however that runs the risks of having threesomes etc. To me it seems like you just want to see what its like having sex with a girl and nothing more. Theres nothing wrong with it, and you do say you love your boyfriend so there shouldn't be a problem.
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