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writes:Wow, ok, I have a huge problem getting over my ex boyfriend, because he was my first love, at 23. The relationship lasted for a year and a half. He has 2 MSN accounts, one with his real name, and one with a fake name. I met him online, on his fake account, so i know what that account is for. We haven't seen each other in a year since we broke up, but we sometimes keep in touch. I haven't talked to him in a while, but he would talk to me on his REAL account, talking about our relationship, and being cute.. Then I would see him on his FAKE account, and with a shirtless picture. He would say he had something to say to me on his REAL account, but would always say, some other time. Then he logs into his FAKE account on different days and never talk to me. I finally brought it up to him that i SEE him log on his fake account. I dont know if he is stupid or just doesn't care. and what is that act for? I know the easy solution is to delete him completely, I still can't bare to do it... I'm so sad. I know I just need to get over it, but I can't believe he is being so callous. It disgusts me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): Don't email him and don't contact him on msn, delete whatever you have from him. I know its hard to move on from your first love but it is over. Its time to move on. Get on with your life and start making yourself available. DO IT. :P
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (6 July 2009):
 i know but thats the thing with guys like they are like creeps
you just need to forget him like.
easier said than done i knows
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reader, powderedheart +, writes (6 July 2009):
powderedheart is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys! it's so horrible right now buy i am itching to email him...
Ilovebowsandcherries (heehee!), I am just so sad, because we were each other's first love, and I can't believe it's been a year since I've seen him, and i still cant get over it... I think i have phantom msn right now, beceause i keep clicking it to see if he is there, even tho i know i just deleted him. haha. I really hate the way things are, I hate how things have turned out.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (6 July 2009):
well the way i see it is he's living two different lives real account he's with you.
fake account he's a single man probably why he doesn't talk to you because in his fake account he's single and he talks to other girls probably.
real account he'll talk to you because in his eyes that's where the relationship is.
i am glad you've deleted both of his accounts because he's messing you about pretty badly.
i mean you probably are right and he doesn't care because he's got two accounts and as far as he is concerned he's got two lives. who knows maybe he has other fake accounts.
he thinks he is a macho man and can get away with doing whatever he wants.
and i'm glad you've deleted him shows you've showed him you won't take anything from him! and that you're a better person than he is!
Hope this helps anyways.
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): Lol very nice, I would have said to you the exact same thing...that you should have taken your own advice. It won't be easy at first from now, but as long as you don't contact him (I dont see why you should) it will be easier every day and you will feel a little better as well.
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reader, powderedheart +, writes (6 July 2009):
powderedheart is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk I just want to say I actually took my own advice and deleted both his accounts off my MSN, I feel.... really good.
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