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writes:am a 17 year old boy and have been having erection problems for the last 6 months. About 6 month ago I tried to have sex with my girlfriend for the first time i got inside her but after awhile i got soft and coulnt goback in(it was on the beach and it was cold) Ever since then getting an erection hasnt been as easy and when I do manage to get one it is never as hard as it used to be. This doesnt just happen when im with my girlfriend its all the time! When that happened i was a virgin and it killed my ego And yesterday i tried with a new girlfriend and guess what my lil buddy wasnt hard enough for penetrating either!i mean i get erections but not hard ones i couldn't penetrate her with that erection and it made things worse.With my first penetrating failure i thought it was psycological issue so i didnt see a doctorAnd within those 6 months i was building up my confidence slowly..but when i failed the second time my hopes were goneIt is really frustrating i dont smoke and i am a healthy guy who is a breakdancerwhats the problem..really I started working just so i can pay the doctor..
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reader, lexstar  +, writes (7 July 2009):
being a female, whos fella has this problem i can fully relatethe first time it happened we were having sex and i was really enjoying it, and as far as i was aware, so was he,next thing i knew he'd fell out, and couldnt get hard again this has happened looooooads with us, at first i felt it was my fault, and told him not to bother with me as i wasnt sexy enough to turn him on; it really upset me. but we percivered, and i just indulged in a few of his likes. . for example he looooooves making me orgasm, and that helps him to get hard,so id try and explore what you likealso, we did loooots of foreplay which has helped things along drastically recently,i asked him about fantasies, personal things and the such, and we had a really long convo, he told me things that no one else knows. this has helped him to feel much more closer and secure with me, which i think has helped.if you dont worry about it and just focus on enjoying yourself things will get easier, dont get hung up on it babexxx
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reader, Michaela H  +, writes (6 July 2009):
The exact same thing was happening to my friends boyfriend and it went on for about 6 months too. at 1st it was upsetting for them both but they just kept trying and one day they tried and it was back to normal. make sure the girl(s) know its not their fault as i know how embarrassing my friend felt when it was happening to her x
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