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writes:im 23 female. ive got a good home lots of pets a bit in debt but working on it. but i just dont feel like my lifes complete and my goals feel so far out of reach with the way things have went finacially in this world before say 8 yrs ago nothing was impossible in fact it was very possible to get the simplest of things and now they feel so far out of reach like you wont be able to reach them. ive gotten so many things from life and i do feel greatful for them and feel very special for what i have but i just feel that sometimes that things i desire the most wont happen. meet that special someone, if i feel low and bad about myself how am i to make someone love me when i dont like myself. i want to own some land but i dont earn near enough to get it in like 10 years but i have the job i love. how do i get out this rut how do i get the strength to drive me forwards. i feel like my life is good and i can make it better but it feels like quite a mess and im sticking my head in the sand. when i realise how my life could be and how it is it makes me cry because it just feels to far away. i want to put myself out their do the things i love do more social things but as mentioned above it just feels so messy i just keep my head in the sand. anyone else felt like this and how did you sort yourself out ? any advice would be welcome. thanks LA
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (6 July 2009):
 yeah i feel like you i'm 20 years old i've never been kissed properly,i've not yet found that someone special and i'm not a big fan of myself but i do like myself i look at myself and think "hey i am pretty and i am a really good person" because i know i am a good person i like to help others i always put other people first before myself no matter what!
sometimes you do need to think of number one!
if you feel you can make your life better than do that!
get your head out of the sand!
take risks!
what is life without taking risks!
i'm sure you've got mates so why not organise a night out with them get out there find someone build relationships with other people.
you'll not just find that someone special instantly!
it does take time people get bored of waiting i know but when it happens it'll happen and then you'll just know.
but in life you need to take risks
so achieve your goals get your land!
earn the money you can get a loan to help you or something but take that risk!
otherwise you'll end up regretting it.
everyone needs to take risks and some risks are good others aren't but you need to learn from them and pick yourself back up and try again.
try until you ahcieve what it is you want from life!
hope this helps.
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reader, laura585  +, writes (6 July 2009):
There are a lot of self help/motivational books. Some people turn to a religious answer and ask God for guidance. I'm more practical myself, I have recently read "Maximum Acheivement" by Brain Tracy- it really just makes you realize that if you really want something bad enough and focus your energy on it- nothing can stop you. You should check it out at least. Since I've started seeing that there is no such thing as a "dead end" and that I can get myself out of situations that seem have no escape- I have acheived many things, and there are many to come. In 2009 I have started getting over the effects of an abusive relationship, got a new car, moved to a new house, and have obtained employment at a place I'm sure I'll love and my income is almost tripling- I start that job next Monday. It's all possible as long as you believe it is- that book is not a miracle book- its common sense written down- because sometimes life gets so hectic that we overlook the obvious.
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