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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi guys,I need help, i was dating a girl for 5 months and it was going amazing. We were both really in love and i thought it would never end. Then she broke up with me out of the blue, said that she needed to concentrate on her exams and she couldnt do that cos she spent all her time with me.3 months on im still not over her. we keep becoming friends, then having arguments, then friends again. what made it even harder was the fact we worked together. We heard rumours about each other, which weren't even true.I met somebody else at work, somebody new, she was great we saw each other for about a month, but i could not shake the fact i was still in love with my ex. The girl i was seeing decided we should take things slow, which i agree (so basically she wanted to break up), so i got drunk and text my ex telling her how much i loved her and wanted her back. She did not respond, instead she went and told the girl i was seeing, even though they had never spoke, she later admitted that she did it on purpose because she was jealous. I asked my ex whether she wanted to start seeing me again, she said she didnt want to spend her summer working on a relationship, but her feeling haven't changed for me.Two weeks later i have found out she is seeing somebody else and they are probably goin out!!I can't believe it, she try's to ruin things for me but its ok for her to get with someone new.I just want my ex back, because i still love her, i dont know what to do, im gonna see her all the time which is making me sad and were even going on holiday at the same time!Please somebody help me, im going mad!!!!!Hope this makes sense
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reader, guywithlove  +, writes (6 July 2009):
Yes dude...I know where u r coming from ...been there and done that....but would give you this advice...this is the same love and feeling of want I had as you have...but truly speaking she does not deserve it....if she is seeing someone else it means she never REALLY loved you...so save this cravenness and REAL love for the TRUE person and not any tom, dick and harry you dated for 5 months...It would help.
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