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*onnaBlume
writes:sooo my ex boyfriend is one of those quiet guys and doesnt really open up to anyone after all he did loose his mom three years ago and never knew his family so he kinda has fear of women getting close to them and then loosing them wich i understand most days. we have been off and on for about three years now and i finally begain to let go and forget about him but recently he has been showing up at my house every morning to get in bed and sleep his night off. we havent had sex just cuddled wich i like because he never was really affectionate at all. i just dont know how to take all this in he is beginning to open up to me and were not fighting like we used to. i did do some unforgivable things when we were broken up and he will bring it up occasionally. but do you think this is it? do you think he wants to be back together or do you think he is just looking for some where to rest his head???
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reader, CupidLover  +, writes (6 July 2009):
 I wouldn't jump to conclusions just yet.
Afterall,he did lose his mother,and u understand how hard that must have been for him.
It's normal for a person to take their time with opening up to people. The both of you don't have to focus on getting back together or making things official just yet.
How about you both focus on being friends 1st as thats probably what he needs right now and just be there for him (as a friend)
If things go fine after a while of being friends maybe u can go to the next level,only if you two are fully ready to try again.
The fact that you guys are talking more,fighting less,and being more affectionate if very good! theres no hurry to get back together again.
Goodluck with it :)
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