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*issBrand2
writes:Ok so me and my ex were dating for 10 years. We had a pretty good relationship. Then all of a sudden we stop hanging out and seeing eachother. We would still send texts back and forth to eachother like we were still together. come to find out he started to see another girl but he said they were only friends. Well come to find out they were more. He told me after I found out that he regrets ruining the best thing in his life(meaning me) and he felt like the biggest piece of crap. Well I told him we could try to work through it, and he said ok let me think about it because i dont want to lose you. To this day he is still seeing her but sending me texts like we never broke up. It hurts so much to be without him I mean i spent 10 years with this guy. Can anyone please help me i cant take it anymore.thanks
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (6 July 2009):
 Believe this: Men will tell you what you want to hear to keep you on the hook.
This man has kinda lied and told the truth to you. He says he doesn't want to lose you, but he's still seeing the other girl. I think when he said ' I don't wanna lose you' he forgot to add ' I wanna keep you in the net while I date this other woman'
It's a classic ' he doesn't want you but doesn't want someone else to have you' scenario...
Please don't fall for it. 10 years is a long time to be with someone and then have them treat you like this. Tell him you want to cut the cord...and then break all contact.
I feel for you, I truly do.
Aunty Em xxx
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