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*itty_3
writes:Is there any way to stop being attracted to someone who's off-limits? if it's not going anywhere, that would just be easier.... :( Reply to this Question
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (21 January 2009):
kitty_3 is verified as being by the original poster of the question we have assigned seats and i happen to have a great view of him so... :-/ ughhh!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): Well, whatever you do try not to skip the class ok? lol
If at all possible, try to sit in the front of the classroom, by the door. So, that you will not see this person during class. Try reading something so you will avoid seeing this person enter the classroom. Leave right after class is over to avoid interaction with this person.
I know this seems a bit evasive, and extreme, but trust me, it will be a lot easier for you emotionally, if you can avoid any type of interaction with this person.
Feel better soon. :-)
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (21 January 2009):
kitty_3 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe're in the same class at school. it's hard to keep a distance. :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): Believe me if there was a way to do that, then this forum would be pretty empty LOL
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): You could just avoid them or find someone more attractive, but yeah you can't just turn off your attraction for someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): "Yum Yum" is right. There is nothing you can you. Just try to keep your distance from them, it will help you not think about them as much. In my opinion, the less you see, hear, and talk to someone, the easier it gets to control your emotions for them. But, the next time you start liking someone, try to dis-attach yourself emotionally from them, until you know for a fact that you have a chance with them, or that they aren't already taken.
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (21 January 2009):
 Unfortunity thier is no law to whom you are attracted to. If you feel attracted to him there is nothing that can stop you being attracted to him. having an attraction to somebody is not a tap that you turn on and off when you want. Take care!
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