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Is he being serious or just messing with me? What's his motive?

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Question - (21 January 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 30-35, *ovelessnotlonely writes:

Okay, here's the basic story to this. There's this guy. I have to sit next to him in a class where it's very free-form and we can talk quiet so long as the teacher doesn't hear us. And he talks to me about um, the dirtiest things! And then there's this friend that sits on the other side of me, and he joins in! So everyday they're going back and forth about body parts, if you get my drift. This is what happens most days.

The other days it's completely different! He's sweet and funny, but it's only the days the friend is not there. I don't get it! Is it just the ways boys are or something?? And the other day, he said to me, really seriously, "Don't take anything I say in here to heart. I'm just joking with you." But today, he asked me out! I don't know if he was faking or serious! Does this happen often? Is he being serious or just messing with me?

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