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writes:I've been with my bf for three weeks, we have a good sex life, but he hasn't came yet. I've asked if he's nervous, but he says he doesn't know what's wrong. He's never been like it before. He did say he hasn't always used condoms with his exes, they were on contraception, but I always like to use condoms and won't allow him to not use one. He says it definitely not me and is always saying how sexy I am, so why can't I get him to cum, any tips on things I could try, I've tried the dress up thing and fantasies, now I'm lost on what to try next, any tips????????????
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reader, Mancunian +, writes (22 January 2009):
The mind is the most senisitive sexual organ. Find out his fantasies. Talk about them while making love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): The problem could certainly be mental or it could be the condoms. In my case, I have rarely ever been able to reach orgasm with one on. No matter what anyone says, there is a definite loss of sensation and I'm sure to the extent that happens is different with each person. If that's the case with him, you may have to stimulate him in other ways to send him over the edge. Be creative. Use your hands, your mouth, your breasts....whatever comes to mind!
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reader, sheribaby38  +, writes (21 January 2009):
 heres some things that might be going on. orgasms are more mental then anything.he needs to relax and let it go. sometimes there holding back so the female orgasms and then they are wore out and dont really care about it. ive had that happen. another thing is some guys masturbate before they are going to have sex so they last longer. thought id just throw this out there. good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): foreplay...
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