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How do I tell the guy I like that I'm pregnant to an ex?

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Question - (21 January 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am pregnant from an ex and have since moved on. A friend from the past just showed up back in my life and I really like him. Unfortunatly, I am not showing yet and he has no idea that in three months I am going to pop. I don't know how to tell him I am pregnant since I know that he hates baby daddy drama. Anyone have any ideas???

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A female reader, PregnantTeen8 Canada +, writes (9 February 2009):

Same thing is happenning to me right now..

I'm now talking to a guy, And he is like in love with me

and he doesnt know im pregnant yet,

and it breaks my heart to tell him & to know that he might not accepte it. but i need to do it soon,

i hope things work out for me and this guy

& i hope it works out for you

* PregnantTeen8 , 3 months pregnant - first kid *

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A female reader, sheribaby38 United States +, writes (21 January 2009):

sheribaby38 agony auntif he truly cares about you he realy wont care. he will help you regardless of who the babies dad is. ive heard of this alot. just be honest with him. you did not mean for this happen and you didnt cheat on him either. things happen in life. congradulations on your baby!! good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009):

you really should tell him, i am pregnant and the father has left me but wanted to be a part in the babies life, anyway... you need to tell him. i told my boyfriend and he never wanted kids, he still loves me and wants to marry me! i never thought he was that kind of person. just let him know, he may surprise you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009):

Well, if you want any kind of relationship with him, you have to tell him soon. Don't assume he is going to be dumb enough to think it is his, if you start being intimate now. That would be the worst thing you could do/try. Men are different. Some men would drop you like a hot rock, while others would accept it...providing they care enough and you give them a reason to care. Being the "father" of another man's child is a hard decision. Think about how you would feel if asked to be the mother of a man's former partner's child if she had left it with him..(?)

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