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My husband doesn't like engage in sexual intercourse

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Question - (21 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2009)
A female India age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi,its not even a year that i have got married.we had a love marriage.my husband does not like to indulge in sex.we hav sex once in three months,which is again initiated by me always.there is absolutely zero intimacy between us.he does not like to smooch,no caressing,never touched my breasts on his own.i keep myself absolutely up to date,every night i wait for him to make love to me.i hav tried wearing sexy lingerie,he does not even bother to look at me when i'm naked.but he likes to hug me when going to sleep.i tried to discuss it with him but he just leaves when i do that.i have never had an orgasm.pls help me.i really love him and he says he loves me too.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009):

Guys like this have grown up with sex as a no-no (before marriage). Which is good because he's the loyal, non-cheating type.

I think it's a matter of seducing him so subtly he doesn't even know it;) google- how to seduce your husband...again-the Subtle way...coming on too strong will turn him off. just one-little-bite-at-a-time. A simple dropping your towel after a shower, then quickly cover yourself. Aim to kiss him on the cheek, but get a corner of his lip too:) do you see what I mean? He will Want more and it will be your little secret:) take care

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009):

I'm sorry to have to be the one to tell you this but I believe your husband is homosexual.

He is only emotionally attached to you, not physically attracted to you.

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A female reader, Rubyjane Australia +, writes (21 January 2009):

Hey,

Maybe you need to make the first move guys love that when girls take control.

Or maybe even get a toy and use it on yourself and see if he wants to join in, maybe try watching porn.

Hope it helps and good luck.

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