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writes: How do you know when your getting tired of being with someone? I've been with this girl for seven months and I think starting to lose my feelings for her. Can someone help? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): seven months isn't that long and if you already feel this way (for whatever reason) than it sure sounds like you need to move on and don't waste any more of yours or her time, chances are things will never be the same no matter what you try to do to change. somethings lacking and you know what you want, but than again maybe you don't, maybe you just want to play the field, after all you are very young and is not ready to settle.. in which you have the option. Just stay remain being friends if possible,and if not.. than so be it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone for all your help. I talked to her about how I was feeling last night and she got mad and started to yell at me. I'm very sensitive and she eventually made me cry. She is always telling me to change and stuff but I really don't know how? I think sometimes she does stuff to me on purpose so that I feel like a bad guy and say sorry all the time. I need more help please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo its not just about sex. We only did it one time we always go do fun stuff like movies and stuff but just recently i've been feeling really strange. Like she is starting to annoy me cause she is always talking about one of her guy friends and she knows I don't like him. It makes me mad but I don't want to say anything cause it will end up a fight like always.
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reader, YESENiiA16 +, writes (21 January 2009):
YOU SHOULD TLK 2 HER... YOUR GANNA HURT HER ALOT THATS 4 SURE, SPACIALY IF SHE LOVES YOU N YA HAVE HAD SEX... TELL HER Y UR LEAVN HER N TRY NT 2 HURT HER..
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): Well, you need to think about it. What has your relationship involved so far? Have you talked, gone out, kissed, and did fun things together, or has everything revolved around sex? If it has, then it would make sense to get tired of a girl. Make sure that you know her before making any major decisions, and maybe take her out to a movie or something fun. If you want sex, and not a long-term relationship, then maybe you should break it off before you hurt her. But if you like her for who she is, then don't be so hasty. Talk to her about your feelings, too. Maybe she's been thinking something similar. Good luck!
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