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*slessnesss
writes:i cant understand whats wrong with me. im not like other people who have a bad outlook on them selves. i dont nitpick about my appearance, i know im not a bad looking guy, i work out hard, im strong and in top physical condition. i have a good job as a diver and the pay is exceptional. im friendly and go out of my way to help others. im clear and to the point when people ask me questions. i'm a hard worker. i'm intelligent, and can make good conversation. ive seen the world and have cool stories to share. im handy, and very good at fixing things, i love to cook, and do so with love, i'm open, honest, and sensitive, a generally nice guy. so why do women hate me so much? why doesn't anyone want me? just to add to the gravity of my pit of despair. I haven't even had a kissed from a women in over 2 years. my biggest problem right now is suicide prevention, which understandably is a source of rejection. but this doesn't explain the rejection in the prior 22 months. what the hell is going on. am i part of some horrible experiment. Reply to this Question
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reader, uslessnesss +, writes (22 January 2009):
uslessnesss is verified as being by the original poster of the question I'd like to thank those of you who have taken the time to respond to my question.
The taking time off to party did help. At least it helped while, I tried this about a year ago. And well I know I am a winer now. But I wasn't always. I think maybe the letting her find me is how I found myself in this mess in the first place. Maybe I took so much time off waiting that I don't know how to do it any more.
The thought of therapy never crossed my mind. I think maybe that will help. I think I need more advice on how to regain my confidence and self esteem. Maybe my desire to quit my job and join the JTF is my idea of attempting to regain the above mentioned attributes.
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reader, mimisoph3  +, writes (21 January 2009):
 maybe u should take a weekend of ur work..get out wit ur friends and partyyy..it honestly seems like u got the whole world planned for u and u know wat u want.maybe women and scared of that.cuz women want to have fun and do hook-ups..try asking one of ur workers out or go out there.dont try to help other ppl out that much it seems like ur getting no help back at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): I am NOT trying to hurt your feelings, so PLEASE don't take this wrong....but it seems to me that you are a whiner. Women don't like that. You also seem to portray yourself as a bit of a braggart. Women don't like that either. As for suicide...think to yourself..IS IT WORTH GOING TO HELL FOR? Relax...the right woman hasn't come along yet. I know you've heard the old addage of "Good things come to those who wait"...so, just relax and enjoy life and stop obsessing with finding "Ms. Right"..just set back and relax and let HER find YOU. It takes time, but it is worth the wait. Good Luck to you.
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