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writes:my boyfriend left me just before christmas after 11 years for another women he met one night after getting drunk he told me he been seening her for 3 wks before at least he been honest with me there. he moved straight in with her she has chidren too he still has some of his clothes here.and keeps coming back every so often for some more . he still text me and his mum separted with her husband in oct he left her then i got made redundant !! so im wondering has he moved in with her to hide himself in the sand as he says he very happy with her and feels relaxed but told me to move on im not conviced he wants this? i told him if he feels he made the mistake he can come back as he has never dones anything like this before.also when he come round he cuddles me and give me a kiss and just before christmas he told me that he loved me more then i would ever realise
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reader, bubbles 53winks +, writes (2 February 2009):
Hi there i was married for 32 years found out my husband was having an affair and he said it was going on for six weeks left me and is still with her, But i am sure he was seeing her for a couple of years, But you can fall in love in a short time. Dont wait for him just get on with your life that will kill him. And if he is glad that you are getting on with your life then you know he is were he wants to be, my ex is still crying after a year, its quilt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): that is what he told me three weeks and im sure if it was more we would of just said that he been seening her for a while i know him that well after a 11 years. i met him when he was 18 and im 47 and he is 30 this year (middle age crisis)!!! a long time to throw away i think we had so much in common even when he told me about her he said there was nothing wrong with are relationship and he cannot believe it happened
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): he is not my husband only my boyfriend !! he seems to be crying still when i speak to him on the phone like i did this morning. dont know what he thinking i think he mixed up dont you agree
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): I'd say your husband is hedging his bets, keeping you keen in case it doesnt work out with the floozy. It doesnt matter what could have lead up to this, if he's not mature enough to cope with his parents separation and your redundancy it seems youre better off without him. If you are still after repairing your relationship with him then tell him that you'll give him X amount of time and then youre moving on......AND MEAN IT for your own sanity and self respect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): Sounds suspicious to me, anonymous. I think he may have known her for longer than he says. I think he is trying to build two nests. That never works out well for either women...nor the man, though it may seem like it to him at the time. If you really still care for him, give him a decision to make. Tell him you will not play second fiddle to another woman...and her kids. You are still young and can find a man who wants you only.
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