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*tephie69
writes:ok so me and my bf have been together over 2 yrs and we are always together we live together and everything we always fight over the stupidest things i hate fighting with him and he says it's cuz i whine all the time and cuz im to clingy what should i do and on top of all that i feel like he doesnt want me sexually any more im 18 and he is 20 Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): I agree with friend tom. Your probably crowding him, give him some space, trust and belive him and allow him some freedom. You dont need to be with him everywhere he goes, stressing out when he talks to another girl, or when he chooses to go out with his male friends instead of you; dont get overly emotional about small silly things. But neither should you ignore him completely, just back off a bit and dont doubt his commitment to you.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (21 January 2009):
 Some of the relationships in your life will not be ideal, especially during your youth. One of the keys to happiness will always be when you are really compatible with those who are closest to you. Seek those who respect you and appreciate being with you most of the time. Realize that no relationship will ever be perfect, but some are much better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): Well, what can anyone say, stephie69? Try to stop being so "whiney and clingy" and start relating as an adult. Some guys may like the "little clingy girlfriend" when they are younger, but it wears out fast, believe me. And if you have real complaints about bf, tell him what they are as an adult and see if you can resolve the problems. If you are honest and straightforward, he will probably respect what you have to say.
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