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writes:i have recently met a girl n we have been talkin for about 6wks now n we get on like a house on fire and have met up a few times aswel. we both enjoy each others company cos we have so much in common n feel we can tell each other everything. the problem is basically she has been in a two year relationship which wasnt working out n they had a baby together,since me and her have been gettin on the ex now keeps tellin her he wants her back and stuff which is confusing her cos she tells me she really wants 2b wit me but cant handle him hounding her all the time.we was talking yday n was goin wel until all of a sudden she turned around 2me n said that shes sorry but feels things r movin 2fast n she doesnt no if its wot she wants or not now.i really dont no wot im suppose 2 do now cos i really like this girl very much cos i feel so comfortable wit her but if she doesnt want 2b wit me then its goin 2b hard 4me 2b able 2 talk 2 her cos i dont want 2 b leaded on but i also dont want 2 lose her at the same time.so could u please give me sum advice on wot i should do please...thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, barney1982 +, writes (21 January 2009):
barney1982 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you all 4 ur advice n ive told her that im gonna give her space cos im prob 2 much of a distraction at the mo but ill still b here 4 her as a friend more then anythin.who nos wot the future holds.
she seemed ok wit it so i hope that she doesnt start 2 think that i aint interest anymore.
i will update it u as things start 2 sort itself out n just want 2 thank you again 4 ur advice :D
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reader, barney1982 +, writes (21 January 2009):
barney1982 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all 4 ur advice n ive told her that im gonna give her space cos im prob 2 much of a distraction at the mo but ill still b here 4 her as a friend more then anythin.who nos wot the future holds.
she seemed ok wit it so i hope that she doesnt start 2 think that i aint interest anymore.
i will update it u as things start 2 sort itself out n just want 2 thank you again 4 ur advice :D
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reader, Ed1337 +, writes (21 January 2009):
 Don't you just love it when things are going really well, then bang, the ex wants them back and blows your life apart?.I had this happen to me 3 weeks before Christmas, I was made to beleive that it never works out for the new guy, so I ended things with my now ex and walked away with my self respect intact.Every situation is different tho, I only ended it because I didn't want to be messed around over xmas. If you really want to be with her then you should give her some space and time to figure out what she wants, don't put pressure on her to make a choice and don't beg her to be with you instead of him. Don't let her be wreckless with your heart either, using you as a backup guy if things don't work out again between them.Would be cool if you could keep us updated, I'm unsure if I made the right choice myself and I do regret not putting up a fight.
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