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writes:OKay so, I talked to him last night about the asian porn and everything he lusts after.. I told him. When I stress it's not good for the baby.. And he told me porn is fine.. And I said "every day" He was just well, there's the door if you don't like it. You can be a whore, out on the streets if you want to... I know you do... And I just don't know what's THIS man's problem! Seriously...I tried everything .. Even a girl on girl 3 some and he said no that would fuck up the relationship and I'll get with the younger girl. I mean I'm not old, I'm 19 years old. He's 28 turning 29 this year.. I mean.. Is It Me? , I'm NOT ugly I think.. Sure, I'm fat, right now.. But, Only because, I'm PREGNANT.. He doesn't want sex, but, likes oral ON HIM. And I keep myself shaved down there. He Says I'm selfish for wanting sex every day all the time.. And he just likes to look at porn ALL NIGHT, and jerk off.. What do I do? I don't want to leave him because, he'll say I want to whore, around. WHICH isn't the case. What's wrong with this Man?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): get away from that animal he will ruin your life and he will ruin the life of your child
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reader, megan1111 +, writes (21 January 2009):
This is going to ruin your relationship. It should be very fortunate to have someone who wants sex all the time but either he feels he is not satisfying you or he is looking for variety that "everyday women" don't do everyday. I would ask him again why he needs porn with you around. If I'm not his porn star, what is he looking for. I've seen porn and it's fake as hell but men don't see that unless you point it out to him. I asked my man why he viewed porn and he really couldn't give me an answer because I work hard at making sure our sex is memorable.
Don't demoralize yourself trying the please him, you all should be loving the experience of your pregnancy. And if you have the baby naturally, the first time you experience sex after the birth, you'll feel like a virgin again (kinda tight).
I wouldn't try to be the $#%re in the porn videos because of some acts you aren't to do, but I would make him state why he likes porn and what he's looking for. If I can provide it, great, if not, perhaps we should re-evaluate our relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you everyone who helped me out. I appreciate it.. And Ive looked thru all your answers.. And Im so glad. You guys just gave me the courage to stand up for myself.. : )
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOKay. I talked to my mister Last night. And He knows Im hurting. I told him he makes me stress.. And all he said was if you dont like it leave. So, I shed some tears. And he changed like over night. But, I dont know if this is a dream.. Or my dad threated him.. Im still confused.. So, I take this man?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): Have you received the answers you wanted? Did you want encouragement to leave this guy, or do you want to stay and try and work things out? Is he always this abusive, or did you and him have a fight and angry words got said. Is your life with this guy a total misery, dose he want the baby, dose he love you? If you leave, then what will you do?
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reader, sheribaby38 +, writes (21 January 2009):
 he is very disrespectful not only to you but also to your unborn child. telling you to go be a whore in the street and your pregnant. hes a sick man. why are you taking his abuse? you should get out of this relationship now while your still pregnant its going to be much more difficult after the baby comes.and also hes a selfish lover. you deserve better then that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): Dump him - he thinks he has complete control over you because you are pregnant and want him to stay to be a father to your child - your child will be ok with just you - he is a loser already.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (21 January 2009):
 Who cares what he says? You aren't going to whore around. For god's sake you are pregnant. I'm not going to lie, I don't have a clue what is wrong with this man. He would rather watch porn than have sex. Has it only been like this since you are pregnant? Like is he not attracted to pregnancy so he insults you? Or does he resent you in a way for being pregnant? Like he doesn't want a kid but now doesn't have a choice and in his own way is trying to chase you off? There's no way of knowing what is going on in his head. But watching porn and not wanting to have sex but doesn't mind oral sounds to me like he isn't attracted to you. I think he is having a problem with the pregnancy. Try talking to him to find out what is going on. Communicate. If he still blows you off then I guess you should leave. Stay at your parents or a friend's house. In any case he sounds like a dick.
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