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writes:hi therei need adviceI have a problem with my bf, we have been together for 2yrs now, we having our ups and downs, last year it happens dat we break up but he asked me to come back to him and tell me that he does'nt have gf. i found out that he is seeing someone else. i want to get rid of him but its difficult i love him. and later on i have noticed that the only thing that he enjoys to do is to have sex with me, this is killing me cant concentrate with someone can talk to him for me.
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reader, Spendy  +, writes (23 January 2009):
 awww..honey ive been der the same situation... HUGS you will be find.. just say it and mean it... you can do it.. LEEAVE that a..hole and be single... i was in the same situation.. when i found out abt his otha girl when we got bk together it killed me.. it still doees cos i loved him soo much.. i still do.. but you have to do what is best for you.. dont let him treat you like that// remember you will meet someone else that you will love moreee than this sleaze bag.. please leave him... and remembber a lot of girls have been through the same thing... but we are all fine.. we got out and now we are happier more than ever.. ok.. your not alone iven been there... guys just treat the girls that loves them really bad i really dont know what is wrong with them.. go out have fun.. be single for abit and let the right man come to you ok... dont contact him... change your number get away from him.. you deserve soo much better dont forget that... and always remeber that there is a very special guy out there waiting for you to dump this bastard so he can find you... hope this helps.... be strong... you deserve better.... take care of yourself cos he wont....xxx
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reader, Tulz +, writes (21 January 2009):
Tulz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx for all the advices, i think its a good idea that i must quite dis relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): This man is having his cake and eat it to. He broke up with you to get someone he thought was better, then came back when things didn't work out there either. So now he is " burning the candle at bothe ends". If it is too hard to let go then make yourself unknown to him. Put in for a number change and dissapear. Remind yourself of what he has done to you and your heart by placing a post it note(if need be) everywhere in your house that reminds you of him. On the phone put a note of "cheater on it" to remind you of what he has done. My point is eventually heartache turns to anger and when you and your heart is ready with a little help from your head you will get over it. Then you can be pissed about the time you wasted on his stupid *&%...
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reader, kelpel +, writes (21 January 2009):
Leave him! Oh my gosh what is this man doing to you?? He is not worth having all these feelings for - I know you can't help that right now, but time will help you - trust me. You can do so much better than a liar who only wants you for sex!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): make 2009 a fresh start. Get rid of the sad pathetic excuse for a man and enjoy being single again. I no its hard because you love him but look at what he is doing to you. He cannot possibly love you if he has another gf and just wants sex of you. He is getting the best of both worlds while making an idiot out of you. Be strong and brave and tell him you have had enough and want out. 2 years is a long time with someone but you have to cut your loses and realise you two are not meant to be together. The one rule i always go by is: Never get back with an ex, they were an ex for a reason..
Good Luck
Flossy !!
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reader, PunkyPippi  +, writes (21 January 2009):
 Who do you love more? Him, or yourself? Who knows what he's doing with this other girl, what kind of diseases she has, etc... and he's willing to spread them to you as well.
This man doesn't even respect himself, let alone you.
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