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writes: Just wanted to know should I be concerned if I'm dating a guy who has a daughter with his past relationship and he says that he has a close relationship with the mother of his child but she be acting like their back together like when she calls him and I'm there in his presence she gets mad, she always asks him questions like where were he at, what's he doing, basically she acts like they're together and when I argue with him or ask him what's going on why is this happening he gets mad and starts carrying on and yelling and saying I'm overreacting, we've been together for a year and a half. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): Run....Run....Run
There is obviously something there with him weather it is feelings or they are still knocking boots. Her feelings take presidency over your feelings or he would put her in her place for you and show you you are the most important woman in his life. Then if it continues after he has professed his feelings for you as his one and only and how he dislikes her actions (In front of you) don't let him do it with out you there to see her response.
The child should be left out of it, for he has legal recourse there and it should be a non issue.
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reader, huneygyrl +, writes (21 January 2009):
That is one of the reasons why some people don't date other with kids.
If he's getting mad at simple questions that you are asking, he's hiding something. Also, if they are talking about there child, honestly, it isn't your concern unless you are helping him take care of the child.
Honey, you are still young. Move on. You have no responsibilities.
Good luck!!
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