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*den1
writes:I recently joined a dating site and got talking to a local guy we exchanged mobile numbers and he invited me through to his for a meal. All went well we text a bit and we were due to meet again but something come up, the texts stopped. I sent him an e-mail online saying hope he was ok and that he still wanted to see me, I got a reply and we met again then contact between us got less we met again on Saturday he rang me before coming and again before he arrived. He said he was playing golf next day so we agreed to speak later in the week. I went on the pc to chat he was online but never responded so I rang him, he said he was looking at something else that was fine, went online on Monday night he's normally eager to chat, said he was having tea so I said I'd catch him later at 8-00pm, he never came on so rang him to see if all was ok, he had got watching the tv and forgot!!!!!!!! I haven't been online since then, he hasn't sent a text or rang so I'm getting mixed signals here and am unsure of what to do next. He is recently divorced and is lacking in confidence at times. We get on so well but I'm not sure what he wants, any advice please ???
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reader, eden1 +, writes (25 January 2009):
eden1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi there placed an advice question about a guy i had been dating and met 2-3 times off a dating site after an e-mail from me asking if id said or done something wrong he admitted by e-mail that he enjoys my company but isnt ready at the moment for a full on relationship but wishes too keep in touch if i want too. I e-mailed him saying yes and perhaps things were going quckly to which he has sent no reply just been online and sent a chat message got no reply i find it strange that if he doesnt want a relationship why hes on a dating site!! and why he isnt replying any advice ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): The best thing to do is give him the same treatment which involves: not contacting him at all, no matter how much you want to. This will make him think you have something else to interest you and he might, I say might start thinking about you again and wondering why you are not interested anymore. If he does contact you to ask what you have been doing just make out like you have been busy and be casual with him, give the impression he is not vital to you. See how it goes and remember there are so many men out there ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): ever think that maybe he has got in contact with his ex wife and they have got talking? He seemed keen at the start but now has gone cold all of a sudden. he either has got bk with his wife or hasnt got the guts to tell you he dont want to see you again.
Learn from your mistakes and move on. There are plenty of decent men online that im sure will enjoy geting to know you..
Take care
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