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writes:Hello Again.Well, My boyfriend and I are still going out. Just to re-cap he and I have been going out for a little over half a year. He was a player and I had not dated many people.Well, this is the longest relationship either of us has been in. Well, things were going great. i was just starting to settle into the idea of things going ok for once. But as we all know nothing good will last.We were at our locker. He was holding me by the waste as i put in our combination, like always. When his best mate came up behind him and called him Whiped!I didnt like this. I know guys freak out when their mates trase them about this sort of thing.So, i tried to space myself from him a bit, so his other mates wouldnt think he was whiped. I asked him if it bothered him but he said he didnt mind. Still, i spaced a bit. He was super snuggly though! So today i decided, that if he didnt care, neither would I. but today it was him that was spaced away! I could feel it. =/ so, is he bothered about the being whiped thing, or was it my fault that he acted different?
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reader, Griffo +, writes (22 January 2009):
 Firstly, is he playing you or IS he your BF? if hes playing he'll be worried about the whipped thing if he's your BF he wont give a crap what they think! on the other hand hes just doing it to impress his mates, so dont worry h'll come back ;)
Secondly, its just Those mates giving a hard time because they are still single and don't have nobody like he does so say they are players which at the end of the day causes a girl to be cautious - and lol, is a waist of bloody time anyway - they should just get to the point stop fooling around and get then selves a girl... If they can ;)
Cheers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): Lol, don't worry about it. Make sure your man is sensible not to be worried about it as well. My family and friends mock my bf about being whipped all the time. He isn't at all. They do it because he's affectionate, kind and willing to do anything for me (as I am for him) This is often seen as 'whipped.' My bf sometimes gets offended but it only lasts for 2 seconds because we both know the truth. Just make sure you indulge in a little public affection to boost his ego. Men like to feel like their women want them and displays like this in front of their friends just boosts it even more. It implys that their getting some (even if their not.) His friends will either be jealous or very curious. Have some fun with it ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): His mate sounds jealous. I wouldn't bother even thinking about it! boys make fun of each other, if he has changed feelings towards you over one little comment then he isn't worth the trouble. But I don't see that happening, I think it's all in your head.
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