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writes:Okay, iv been with this guy for WAY over a year, but we arent dating like boyfriend girlfriend thing. He's 17, im 14, and I know how adults think us "kids" are to young to be in love. But truth be told, I defenitly know I am. He's generous, he makes me feel like were the only two in this cold world when we are together. Even if I'm mad at him, he always says the sweetest things to make me forget why I was. But, he's been going out with a total witch for a month and I had to find out on my own. He claims he didn't tell me cuz he didn't wabnt to hurt me. and I'm not just saying she's a witch cuz their going out, I'm saying it cuz she's threatened me to stop talking to him "or else". He says he feel hard for me, and he loves both of us, and I know I deserve better, but I have tryed moving on, but it's killing me and hurts SOO bad! I cry myself to sleep ever night, and I wanted to die. PLEASE help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (21 January 2009):
 Are you kidding me, "love is a choice"? You can pick the people you fall for about as easy as you can lick your own elbow. As for you chick, dont sweat it. Yea its gonna hurt but that IS one of the things that is true about love. It will get better. Hard to believe now, but it will.
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (21 January 2009):
 please dont say u want to kill urself..give him time he will realize wat his missing out on..dont cry urself to sleep because of this..have u ever tried talking to him telling him that she threatened u.u will get him to come back onlyy if its meant to be..or else chase him and dont give up..just dont cry over this
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reader, huneygyrl +, writes (21 January 2009):
 Honey, cheer up. Don't stay depress. He will realize later he should have been where he needed to be.
Find activities to keep you busy. Where you are at is unhealthy. You have a whole life ahead of you.
Hang in there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): Hey, guess what? This will happen to you dozens of more times. You have to attach yourself to a person who loves you and treates you with respect. You'll find in sweet time that love is a powerful emotion that commands respect. Just because you like a guy, or find him handsome doesn't mean you have to fall in love with him. Have some will power and remember love is a choice.
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