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I don't want her to think I'm a lousy lover...

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Question - (21 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2009)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I need help.. I'm feeling kind of worried. I'm about to have sex with a girl I've been going out with for over three months... she's cute, sweet ect.

and I'm a pretty nice guy, but I'm afraid what she'll think when we have sex, I'm afraid making the wrong move at the wrong time, sticking it in the wrong hole, and all that stuff.

I'm just afraid of what she'll think of me afterwards.

I don't want her to think I sucked at it and, that I'm lousy at having sex. Is there anything I should do to make her feel more pleasurable having sex with me, that will make her wanna do it over and over again.

thxs

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009):

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thank you everybody, you've helped alot..

especially you "satindesire"

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (22 January 2009):

DoubleM agony auntIf you are both virgins, she will probably not know the difference. You could do yourself a favor by reading many of the archived postings about making love on this Web site. Enter search words like: passion, foreplay, intercourse, etc.

Presuming that the two of you have already been "making out" a good deal, then you have apparently already been able to conduct foreplay successfully. In other words, you both became hot and horny. If this did not include you fondling her private area (vulva, pussy, et al) then it would be a good idea to practice massaging, rubbing and fingering her several times before jumping to attempted intercourse. It's advisable to know where her proper hole (vagina) is located. My suggestion is to do that for a couple of weeks and get back to us

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009):

Well it should be incredible anyway, correct me if I'm wrong you are a virgin? First time ever and first time with a new person are the high points of sex.

Let her know how much you're enjoying it. Everyone is happy to hear that!

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