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male
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30-35,
*iceman1
writes:Basically I'm torn between 2 women.One is my ex girlfriend of 2 and a half years, we had alot of problems mainly to do with trust, but I was so in love with her I couldn't imagine being with anyone else. I was even planning on asking her to marry me on her 20th birthday but she broke up with me saying that she does not love me any more, then about a week later she said she made a mistake and and she wants me back and it was great for another 2/3 months untill she started acting strange and then broke up with me again about 4 months ago. During these 4 months we haven't really talked except a few times where we argued every time.The other girl is a friend of many years who I have liked since I was 11, you could say she was my school crush. I ditched her when I got with my ex because as I said there was trust issues and she knew I liked her. About new years this year we found each other again. This is were it all gets complicated I and my old school friend went out with some other friends on new years to a club were my ex just happened to be, I got drunk and decided to make a move on the girl that I liked for so long, but my ex saw and she called me the next day and had a go at me again. A few days ago she called me and said that she missed me and that maybe she wanted me back. I wanted to talk to her so I asked her to come round my place were we stupidly slept together but now all our feeling have come flooding back.I don't know what to do, my ex and I are getting on like old times but I was just starting to be happy again and I and my old school friend have been getting on really well as well. I'm not in official relationship with either of them but I really don't know what to do.Sorry for it being so long and I hope I got everything in, I would really apreciate hearing what people think as I really don't know what to do.thanks you so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): you should so go with your school sweetheart. try it and see what happens. give you and your ex some space. she's continually breaking up with you. she makes you happy and then strikes a knife in your heart and then tares it back open and the womb never really completly heals. why would you put yourself through that constantly. she just wants someone to run back to when shes lonely and that isnt fair to you, you end up getting hurt.
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