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*il_dreamer
writes:Ok i REALLY need to hear some advice and decide something. because my friend is gettin his license in a week and a half and he plans on fucking. we met over a year ago and our relationship is purely sexual even tho im a virgin. from sending pictures, videos, to dirty talkin or talking bout having sex soon. we only hooked up three times and we basically did everything but have sex. the only thing thats in the way before was not having a free house or place to hang out. now he almost has his license and there is nothing in the way. im soooooo attracted to him, thats the thing and its very hard to say no. he's really smart, funny, everything i want. but the only thing is that he only wants sex..i kno i may regret losing it to him but at the same time, i want to. he IS a good guy, but such a manwhore =/..so why do i like him so much..idkHELP i need to hear something. i have less then two weeks to decide! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): If you do it, just take some responsibility for it.
You know exactly how he is ahead of time. Don't get all surprised and expecting everyone's sympathy when he does the same thing to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): I really dont think you should lose your irginity to this guy. At least not until your sure that he wants you for way more than just sex. If you give in and have sex with him then hes got his way and he will either a) expect sex from you now so you will be like his sex buddy or b)move on as hes got what he wants. I seriosly think you need to rise above that and have dignity. It might be hard but trust me!!!! if he doesnt want you coz you wont have sex with him HES AN ASSHOLE... and if he does then you will like him even more and can wait til things move on a bit. Hope this has been useful , good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): Do Not Have Sex With Him. Sex should be with someone you love and respect, that loves and respects you back.Especially your first time. It's an amazing experience that you will remember for the rest of your life. Especially if you're a girl. You should want to lose it to someone that you will want to remember the rest of your life. Someone that will also remember you, and know what a gift it is that he was the one you chose to give yourself too.What you are feeling is very passionate and intense lust. You first time should Always be based on Love and Respect, not just lust.Wait to find someone that understands the value of what sex really is.
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (21 January 2009):
 if your relationship is all about sex it isn't much of a relationship. wait.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (21 January 2009):
 I personally don't feel you should have sex with him. By how you are talking it sounds like lust, not love. Losing your virginity to someone you love is soo much better. Although I know not many girls do it. And if he only wants sex and you do fall for this guy, then you are in for a lot of heartache. I made this mistake once and won't ever do it again. Now if you can honestly say you don't want a relationship, you strictly want to have sex, and this type of relationship won't bother you, then I guess you have nothing to lose and you can go for it. But in my opinion you saying that you think you will regret it is evidence enough that you should not do it.
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