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writes:Would you french kiss a girl who engage in oral sex with her ex boyriend 3 years ago? Next question is it true that if you kiss a girl that engage in those things it will come in like you kissing the guy private part?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (22 January 2009):
 If you shake hands with someone who masturbated a couple of years ago, or even yesterday, are you also stroking his penis or fingering her vagina? While I understand that you are very young and impressionable, it would be a good idea to resist wild suspicions and ridiculous notions of this sort.
However, if you engage in sexual relations with a female (or anyone) who has fairly recently engaged in sexual relations with someone infected with a sexually transmitted disease, such as gonorrhea, herpes, HIV or any number of other infectious maladies, you may indeed risk exposure.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (21 January 2009):
oh please!
this is just silly. you're telling me that by kissing your girlfriend you feel like you are taking in her past bf's oral experience? that's just silly. how will you ever go through different relationships with this attitude? you need to get over this silly idea and except that people have ex's. people can't remain "pure" forever.
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (21 January 2009):
 Im sure you have kissed other girls right? Have they all been virgins? Have any of them gave oral sex? Are You Sure? Or have they done it and you know nothing about it ? Anyways Im sure your g/f brushes her teeth and it has been three yrs not 3 hrs and you. Its not like you are putting her exs penis in your mouth . Yeah I say Kiss her and yeah its ok.
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reader, NurseBetty85 +, writes (21 January 2009):
 Hey,
Sometimes you can't help the past. It's been 3 years, not 3 hours ago. Don't worrie about that.
So you are not going to Kiss anymore girls because they give there ex's oral sex?
I Understand how you feel, but in reality you can't help someones past. I've kiss plenty of men that performed oral
sex on there ex in the past and I dont think I'm Lesbian.
You have to get over that youngman. You know how hard it's going to be to date a girl that has not give oral sex...Impossiable! lol
Just enjoy yourself, have fun and don't think that way when kissing a girl. We are only Human!
NurseBetty85
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reader, Delts +, writes (21 January 2009):
I would absolutely kiss her. If you feel strong enough to want to, then don't worry about her history. If it was yesterday I too would be a little put off by the idea, but that was a long time ago. A person's past is just that. Ask yourself this, how would you feel if she wouldn't give you oral sex because your ex-girlfriend did 3 years ago? The truth is, as you grow older and your sexual activity increases you will come across many issues such as this one. You need to treat every woman as an individual in the here and now. When you start engaging in intercourse their past becomes more of an issue. ALWAYS wear a condom and get to know them more so you have an idea of how sexually active they are. Protecting yourself first is a top priority. I say go for it.
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