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*eany1990
writes:This is yet another penis size question folks! Well, I have been dating a girl of over a year now and we have not had sex yet because she isn't ready, but, I am scared I may hurt her since she is a virgin and I am also. My erect penis length is 6 inches and the circumferance (Girth) is 5 inches. Will I hurt her and make her uncomfortable?
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (21 January 2009):
yeah it will hurt her. but then it would hurt her if you had a 2 inch errect penis. first time sex for us girls just hurts. just take it slow and gentle and maybe only put so much of your penis into her.
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reader, woeizmex  +, writes (21 January 2009):
You say u are a virgin too right? For her yeah of course it will hurt because that is normal, but for you... it depends if you are circumcised or uncircumcised and if you have frenulum...
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (21 January 2009):
 Your penis is a completely normal size and over the years, millions of virgins have not been killed by first time sex with similarly sized penises.
Sex the first time will be uncomfortable, and yes, it might hurt. But, it's just what's got to happen. What's most important about first time sex is that it doesn't hurt her emotionally - that you are gentle, tender, attentive and passionate with her. Her body will adjust over time and with lots of practice (that's the fun part), but you have to make sure that you're not only taking care of her bod, but her mind.
Make sure you use lots of foreplay, ask her what she wants and encourage her to tell you if you're moving too fast or if she's hurting too much. Remind her every step of the way how beautiful and amazing she is, and treat her like an angel in the morning (believe me, she'll be soooreeee down there the next day).
For me and my fella, it took us one MONTH to get sex right and to make it start hurting, but the trip there was a blast and the pain? Totally worth it and long forgotten. Losing your virginity will be a great experience for both of you, especially when it turns into a memory. Wait until she is completely ready and comfortable with the idea of sex!
You sound like a keeper. Good luck!
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reader, HonestyAunt +, writes (21 January 2009):
Your penis size is normal, and anyway, it's not so much the size which can cause a problem, but lack of understanding send selfishness - and it doesn't sound like this is a problem for you, you clearly care about her.
Sex for the first time often does hurt - if it does, it isn't your fault, it's just nature. But there are things you can do to make things easier. Take things really, really slowly, and use a lubricant. As long as you take your time and make it a lovely night before hand - cook her a meal or decorate the room with candles, even if it hurts a bit it will still be very special for her.
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