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writes:me and my boyfriend been together for 2 yrs now and i really love him and everything but i like to conversate with other guys. i never technically cheat but i talk on da fone wit them late @ night and go out with them places and thats where it stops! i never tell my bf cuz i no how he will react and i think he might wanna leave me. its been like 3 months since ive talk to any guys like that but it still makes my feel soooooooo bad wen i think about it and whenever im with my bf and i see how good he is to me and how well he treats me and i think why wud i wanna do anything to mess this up...it really takes its toll on me everytime i think about it and he always ask me whats wrong and i just tell him im tired or hungry and inside i just wanna tell him so i can get it off of my chest but i dont want him to leave me....should i tell him or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, Miss Potter  +, writes (21 January 2009):
 I guess you might just be bored with your boyfriend so you need this extra excitement that comes from socialising with other boys. Try to do more exciting things with your bf, go on a holiday, go camping, do a sport together (tennis), play chess, something that will keep you connected better. If you think he will want to break up with you if he finds out about other guys then think whether you want to risk you relationship, if not - try harder to stay emotionally connected with him.
All the best!
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