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I would just like opinions on this situation with my ex, please.

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Question - (9 August 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 August 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, *ixieGwen writes:

I've written about my situation before - it keeps progressing.

My ex and I have been talking/slept together.We broke up cos he was "no longer feeling it".It made no sense to me seein he was contacting/seeing me daily,made sure I met his fam etc - on his own.To me actions speak louder than words and he def seemed like he was feelin it.

Recently he told me he's been hanging out/dating this chick-theyre not exclusive(I happen to know her).He made sure I knew who it was and rubbed it in my face ,even if we changed subs he'd go back to talkin bout her/them -either to get me jealous/upset.I tried not to react.We got coffee the following day.Convo was normal until he weaved our relationship in there - why we didnt work out, it was all him etc.I said we didnt work out cos he anticipated failure so it didnt progress like it shouldve, so he gave up *hes at a financial low, has been cheated on in every relationship* So i fig those things added to it.I said he's weird/odd and he said "I have issues but im working on them! :)" I mentioned us gettin to know each other and he said "That's what we're doing now".He had a shit eating grin the whole time we were hanging out, gave me the once over and complimented me on my outfit.At the end he hugged me like he was gonna squeeze the life out of me...a really long hug.

I dont get him.I know I shouldnt over analyze..

I plan on bein friends w/ him but I'm not gonna go outta my way/contact him alot.I guess I just like opinions.

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A female reader, PixieGwen United States +, writes (12 August 2009):

PixieGwen is verified as being by the original poster of the question

PixieGwen agony auntyeah that makes sense.Im tryin to leave him alone.Its hard not to contact him.I figure he can contact me - if he misses me/wants to hang or see whats up.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (12 August 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntBeing friends with someone you are romantically attracted to is a recipe for unhappiness. I'd probably would just get on with my life and let him work on his issues without you, at least for the time being.

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A female reader, PixieGwen United States +, writes (11 August 2009):

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PixieGwen agony auntno im not..

why do u ask?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (11 August 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou aren't still sleeping with him are you?

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