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writes:I am really confused and need help. I am dating a guy, he makes me happy, he wants to move in and he does act like I am married to him. I am happy with him and see a futre. My problem is he does not like me talking to a female friend of mine he says she has the hots for me. At first I did not see it now I due... I have always felt a connection to her and now it has moved to Im attracted to her and have some sort of feelings for her.. She is married, in an unhappy marrage. Here's the things she has done at work by me rubbed her boobs, massaging them, licked her lips arched her back and runs her fingers through her hair and rubbed my hand smelled my har and licked her lips the gave me a sleek smile.. At first I thought she just liked the attention because it was turning me on! However when I started dating my bf she took a week off of work after I told her I was going to date him. Then avoided me for two months- I missed her and was so miserable durning that time at work she looked the same.. I never seen her smle or talk to anyone.. I wanted an excuse to get her talkin to me again so I went through and picked out old books for her kid then gave it to her to open the channel of communication. It worked, she told me why she stopped talking to me was because of my boyfriend and she wants me to dump him. I gave no answer, but I have feelings for her.. Since then she is acting back to normal and persusing me and has told me not to txt her at home, now but at work she looks at me like she is in love with me and acts that way too... Now I have feelings for them both, my boyfriend knows and is cool with it.. I just dont know if I should persue her back and see what happens or keep things as they are or what.. Please help me Im so confused..
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reader, silly sue  +, writes (16 August 2009):
It sounds like you are only with the guy because he is nice and he give you a sense of security, but you actually have more feelings for her; or at least you have not voiced your feelings for him here. It is not really fair to him. IF you think you can forget her and feel the same for him then, you should go ahead with your relationship with him, but if you know that you connect better with her and that you will miss her more then you should try being with her. It almost sounds like you are not perusing a relationship with her because there is no security in that because of her marriage.
Think what is more important to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): How bi-SEX-ual are you? Looks like 20%.Make a list of the facts about each person that are not influenced by how you feel about them and then see which is the better fit for you.I think you like the woman. You like her attention. Her sensuality. You haven't said anything interesting about how you find your boyfriend attractive other than he feels for you about how you feel for this woman.
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