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writes:My guy friend and I haven’t been talking. I texted him the other day saying that I heard he was going out with someone and he texted me back twice asking who I heard it from. I never answered him. I know that he’s not in a relationship! When I go to school I won’t talk to him unless he try’s to talk to me. How can I make this guy jealous because I know that he still likes me? I don’t know why he’s acting like this. He promised me that he would never hurt my feelings or be mean to me but he has. On the first day of school I’m going to look so nice just to make him jealous because I know it will work. During the summer I’ve had plenty of guys flirt with me so he ignoring me doesn’t bother me anymore. I still have strong feelings for him but I’m not crazy for him anymore. I’m so glad that I got over him a little. I can’t wait to see how he acts when I don’t see him on the bus the first day then the next week I’m not going to be in school but on vacation. I hope he misses me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): Playing games never usually works in the game players favour, if you like him then tell him if not don't play games as it's just cruel.
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (9 August 2009):
 Do you not think life is to short to play games? I dont mean to be rude but this post just sounds so immature, grow up life is to short
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (9 August 2009):
Honey, friends don't play games with each other. Real friends are honest and kind and supportive. If your guy friend stopped talking to you and has been distant, maybe it's because you keep acting one way and talking another and ignoring him and playing games and it's confusing him and he doesn't like it. If you like and care about this guy, then why would you want to "make him jealous"? Torment him for your own ego boost? Wow. ouch. I wouldn't want to be friends with you either.
Why not try just being kind and honest?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (9 August 2009):
I read this and all I could think of was WHYYYYYY?
Why would you go to this much planning and effort just to try and cause issues?
If you are pissed off with him and he's an ex boyfriend then move on.
If he's just a friend then either sort it out like mates or leave him alone.
What will you gain by giving him funny looks and playing mind games? I'll tell you. You'll gain a reputation as a drama queen and a girl with issues.
Just chill out and move on!
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009): for someone who is over him and is glad about it, you sure are putting alot of effort into not worrying about it.... Maybe, just maybe he is tired of the games. I know I would be and i have only read one paragraph. after a point, people get tired of the people who play games with other people (such as the one you are playing) and figure.. if you can get all those guys to hit on ya... have at it.
stop playing and grow up. as you can see its stopped working.
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