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writes:Ok, so here I am. It's been 6 months since my break up with the guy I was with for 5 1/2 years. There have been some mean and nasty things said back and forth and there has definately been some sh*t talking and now his whole family pretty much hates me and things I am crazy. Now, by all rights, I should hate him for what he's done to me. I should seriously want nothing to do with him, and I know this. Infact I hated him for all of two weeks, and now it's come back full force and I still want him. I still want him back. I have tried everything in my power to move on from him, went out with friends, threw myself into work, committed myself to other things, and nothing works. I am so lost, because every single day it feels like it's the first day all over again without him. How do I move past this? How do I stop crying every single day over him?
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reader, Timothy81 +, writes (9 August 2009):
First of all, I'm sorry to hear about your pain. But if he has not talked to you ever since you broke up - that means he doesn't want to go back. Just accept it the way it is. It can be hard, but you have to (and this is a MUST) to move on. Even if he comes back after those 6 moths - what's next? A year of "happy" dating and then another break up? No. You have the right and the strength to end this completely. You just do not think you can, but you can! Move on! Try to enjoy your own life and try to love and respect yourself. This should do!
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