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*axaxa
writes:Regarding marriage:My aunt is my fathers' cousin, so she is related to me. My aunt husband want to marry me, is it possible if i want to get married?Please i need your advice. Thank you so much.
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reader, hamza  +, writes (13 November 2009):
hi,
i don't know if this is a bit late or not but i have the answer to your question.
the answer is that first of all;
your mother or father's cousin is not your uncle or aunty.you are both first cousins, once removed.
so in actual fact if you were to marry this man you call your aunty's husband then you are wrong in the first place because she is your father's cousin and not yor father's sister, therefore there should be no objection from anyone if you were to marry him.
hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): so let me get this straight, you are having an affair with your aunts husband and now he wants to marry you and you want to marry him. what about your aunt in all this? do you even consider how hurt she would be that you want her husband. polygomous marriage end in heartache. in this modern era why would you even consent to something so degrading for yourself.
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reader, xaxaxa +, writes (9 August 2009):
xaxaxa is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for the advice... i am muslim that is why i'm asking like this question...both parties are muslim as well...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009): He's only related to you by marrying your aunt, so yes it is possible - but obviously not whilst being married to your aunt.
What concerns me is, if they are still married and happy, or at least it's happy on your aunts side, why would you want to split up a couple in the family? Are you having an affair with this man?
If you're not, or not YET, then don't go there, please, it will only cause heartache for everyone involved, and your family.
If you are, then stop doing this, as it will end with heartache, with your aunt being the most hurt.
If he wants to leave her for you, then you need to consider all the outcomes here. More than likely your family won't talk to you or your aunts husband, and once your relationship is over with this man (who is more than likely using you for sex), there's no crawling back to your family. Keep in mind what you'll be losing.
At the moment these are just theories, as you haven't provided much information, but if you ARE in this situation, then please take what I have said into consideration.
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reader, busy04  +, writes (9 August 2009):
 You don't have to marry him...why should you? Is there a law that says you do? I don't think so!
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