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writes:I could really use some help, I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and I really love him, more than anything. We only ever have one problem. He thinks that I am a flirt, but I'm not and I would never do anything to mess this up, he breaks up with me a lot because of this, but I can't take him leaving me anymore. Do you have any ideas to help me out? I'd really appreciate it, thanks.
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reader, Spannah96  +, writes (11 August 2009):
Sit down with your boyfriend and talk about it, is it you being slightly in denial or him being jealous,, if it is him being jealous then you don't have to prove yourself to him but don't get angry with him either just tell him what you think. I think you should listen to what he has to say and when you next socialize with people if he thinks you have been flirting with people ask him how and in what way, if he doesn't have proof that you have been flirtatious in any way then don't change for him and tell him what you think about his behaviour, but if there is proof that you have been acting flirtatious then apologies aand tell your boyfriend how you are sorry for how you have acted. Good luck! :) I hope this helps. :) x x x
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (9 August 2009):
 Why put up with this drama? If he can't deal with your so-called flirting, that's his problem. Life is too short to be with someone who wants to fundamentally change you.
Good luck.
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reader, Twistedbaby420 +, writes (9 August 2009):
 Do you think you have a flirtatious personality, or do you believe your boyfriend is being jealous?
If you are flirtatious and are aware of when you're being so, maybe scale it down a bit out of respect for your boyfriend.
If you think he is simply being jealous, then don't change at thing, because if his jealousy (and insecurity) is why he breaks up with you, he isn't being fair to you. He needs to accept you the way you are and stop jerking you around.
If you find yourself being upset with him more then you are happy being with him, end things yourself and enjoy flirting with the other boys for awhile.
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