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I'm in love with her, but she's with my friend, what should I do?

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Question - (9 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 August 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *ookeez482 writes:

Alright. So I've known this girl since I was in 6th grade (now a Junior) and I've always loved her. At one point, I told her how I felt, and we went out. For a day. She said it didn't feel right since she had just gotten out of a relationship, and I can get that. I told her it was fine and I respected her decision. I then got into a relationship, and ended it after 6 months because I just couldn't stop thinking about her. Fast forward a bit, and now she's been with one of my friends for two years, and I find myself really depressed that I can't be with her. I'm not the kind of guy that would break that up, because I know she loves him deeply. But sometimes I just want to tell her that I still have feelings for her. What should I do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009):

Respect your friend!!!! Don't do it :D good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009):

I think you should just go for it and tell her how you feel i mean wats the worst that could happen yea i know she could turn you down but you will never know if you dont try. n if you dont try and say something you could lose the chance. the sooner you tell her the more of a chance you have for her to say yes and be with you but you have to be honest about your feelings and dont leave any of them out. i hope it all works out good luck:)

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